Thursday, May 25, 2006
Some Women Just Don't Understand!
Most of the women in my life including my two ex wives have never really understood my need to masturbate while I was in relationships with them. I never kept my "hobby" a secret from any of them and tried to explain that even though I loved them and the sex with them which was much more rewarding than masturbation...well jacking off just felt a little different and it was something I needed to do from time to time. I didn't mention that I frequently fantasized about other women when I jacked off. That's hard NOT to do when you are looking at porn! Maybe they suspected that other women theory and that was the basis of their objection. I think most just felt that since we were having sex together I shouldn't need any additional sexual relief on the side. Some may have thought that they weren't adequately satisfying me and felt bad about that or thought it was a reflection on their lack of sex appeal...which never was the case!
Maybe it's just another basic difference between men and women...like men think the Three Stooges are comedic geniuses and women think they are imbeciles. Men think that it's okay to jack off while in a relationship and (some) women think that they are pervs for doing so! That doesn't go for all women of course. I suspect today's young women are much more enlightened and accepting of the whole concept of masturbation, in and out of relationships, than those of my generation. They probably don't even hide their vibrators anymore! Few of my women partners in olden days even admitted to me that they masturbated...ever! Again this is much more a reflection of my own generation. Judging from the female written blogs I read, modern women don't try to hide the fact that they get great enjoyment out of masturbation and that's a good and healthy thing!